I wanted to write about this for the past couple of weeks. It’s about letting go someone who is close to you. why is letting someone go gets so difficult? Is there a way by which one can restrict him selves in a relation saying beyond this he can’t let the other person leave him alone. I do understand that he/she would be there forever with me but the warmth and care you experience when he/she is next to you smiling, something that you can’t explain. I even understand that he/she has prior things than hanging around next to me, but still the sound of letting go gets so dissonant. And why does not the brain understand this and the feeling is same every time we miss a person? I guess that is why many people say feelings are from heart and if it had been from the brain, it would have got the adaptability from repetition of such events and would not cause such feeling over and over again. I have seen many people who would feel the same with materialistic things but the brain adopts. They seem to learn and make sure that such things do not happen. Relations are an exception.
And in contrary, this feeling does not stand long. It takes some transition time and it’s the period where one needs to be stable at thoughts. Yeah memories fade, but this transition period makes people feel that world becomes a difficult place to live in without that lovable person. But thinking back in time we might have a couple of such people whom we missed a lot and could overcome, parents standing prior. If this is understood letting that someone go would not hurt after a certain period and we can go on with life normally with a new zeal to move on with life and would like the sound of letting go going harder and hit the party:) :)
